
Studies show that more couples become engaged during the period around the Holidays in December through Valentines Day. With this in mind I thought it would be a good time to write a few words about the Engagement Photography Session.
Not all couples choose to have engagement photos taken. This can be for many reasons. Maybe the budget is tight and they don't feel it is worth the extra expense. Or maybe they haven't selected a photographer yet. Or maybe it simply slips through the cracks and does not get scheduled.
Speaking as a photographer I think this is a big mistake. First, relative to the cost of wedding photographs, the engagement session is usually fairly inexpensive. Many photographers will offer deep discounts on an engagement session or include it in their wedding packages so cost should not be a reason for not having engagement photos taken,

But more importantly the engagement photography session offers a chance for the newly engaged couple and the photographer to get to know each other.
The engagement session is certainly less structured than the wedding day itself and by comparison the stress level is FAR less. Couples are able to express their own unique personalities in the engagement session in ways that would be very difficult on the wedding day. It is easier to include unique elements that reflect your personality. As an example some couples who have children may wish to have the children included in some of the engagement pictures. Some couples bring along their pets and they can be part of the engagement portraits.
The photographer can learn a lot about the individual personalities of the bride and groom to be in a more relaxed atmosphere of an engagement session. Also the engagement session gives te photographer a chance to see what poses and lighting can work best for an individual couple. He can also learn whether te couple is comfortable posing and what makes them more comfortable. All of this can be invaluable when it comes time for te wedding photographs.
But most of all the engagement photography session gives the engaged couple a chance to "try out" the photographer and be sure the photographer and his style are a good fit for the couple.

The many uses of an engagement photo are almost n added bonus. Many couples choose one or more images to use in their "save the date" cards (your photographer can help with that if you like). The portraits from an engagement session are often ordered as blow ups or canvas prints and become treasured family portraits. You can use the images to create a beautiful custom guest book for the wedding. Some couples have poster sized prints made to decorate the reception.
In short the engagement photo session can be invaluable for both the engaged couple and the photographer.